
been doing far too much of this by my lonesome self…
I’m curious if any of you would like to journey further with me into this theme of reconciliation. There’s too much to process, isn’t there? I have stuff happening here in Omaha I need to think about and respond to. I’m wondering how adventuresome you might be. Here are two things I’d like to do in the next couple of weeks.
A Watch Party. And… a Book Discussion.
Are you a watcher or a reader? I hope you’re more than both. Honestly, both can be pretty passive depending on what you do with what you see and hear. But reading and watching can be ways of jumping on a needed learning curve you may have been avoiding. So, which would you rather do? Let me give you the details and I’ll see if I get any takers.

A watch party!
I saw a live interview last week I think others might find helpful. It was hosted by Tommy Lee of Resource Global, a leadership development cohort for “young adults desiring to bring social and kingdom impact into the marketplace.” The hour and 15 minute round table discussion focused on response to current tensions over Black Lives Matter and police brutality. See details at this link on my Facebook. I was drawn to the event when it caught my attention on the InterVarsity staff Facebook page. With Rev. Dr. Brenda Salter-McNeil on the panel I decided I had to watch it. I’m going to watch it again exactly one week after the live event.
My watch party will be THIS THURSDAY JUNE 18th at 7:15pm Central
If you watch this on your own, you’ll enjoy it. I’m asking you to watch it WITH ME! Watching in community with discussion happening takes your learning further. A watch party is a way for “all of Tim’s friends and supporters” to experience something together. I’ll have it up and ready to go on my Facebook page so anyone who can get to my page can watch (whether or not you’re on Facebook, whether or not your my Facebook friend!). If you are a FB friend, you’ll get a notice on your page when I start the party. I’ll also text you a link earlier in the day as a reminder!
Spoiler Alert: My wife knows that I talk while I watch things (much like I write obnoxiously in the margins of my books). Cheryl, I promise if anyone shows up, I’ll behave…
So…you’re a reader instead of a watcher?
Or maybe in addition to being a watcher? Want to read a book with me? I have been assigned to read Healing for Racial Trauma by for my Region’s annual staff gathering next month (happening virtually not in person this year).
I have to have this book by the end of June. I’m wondering if you’d like to join me? People who will find the book most helpful of course are people who have experienced racial trauma. Honestly, I am reading it because I am a staff supervisor who wants to know how to care for staff, students and faculty members. I’m reading it to hopefully discover the kind of healing that I need as a person more likely to be the cause of racial trauma than the victim. You might be like me. I’m wondering if you’d like to help me read this. I get more out of a book when I can discuss it with others.
So how are we going to do the book discussion. How about we do it in TWO 45 MINUTE Zoom calls? Give yourself a week to get the book. Another week to read the first half and another couple of weeks to read the second half. Here’s the table of contents and here are the two dates I’ll suggest for the zoom call. They are both Sunday evenings.
Did I mention that I want to send you the book free! Yes. Free. You’ll have to email me and let me know you want it. I can have it sent to you electronically or in paperback (I’ll need your address if I’m shipping it to you – your email will do if I’m sending it electronically). I’m serious about this! [Or you can order your own copy of Healing from Racial Trauma at IVP Online.]
Join me in learning!
Tim

So much for procrastination. For several weeks now the need to blog has been gnawing at me. I’ve been looking for a good space in my schedule to post. Covid has been a moving target that I’ve just become fed up with. Do I keep uploading pictures of zoom meeting 3X3s? I also took some days back in May to travel to Illinois helping my son with his big move to California. Then things started heating up in the aftermath of the George Floyd killing. I wasn’t really sure how this was going to land in my own community. Till the weekend of May 29th!
That night I was in my backyard packing our SUV for a trip to Illinois (helping my son’s family move). Sirens tore past our block as police vehicles raced to downtown. Lots of demonstrators. And lots of vandalism to downtown businesses. A shooting happened outside a bar whose owner had foolishly carried a weapon to the scene. James Scurlock, an unarmed black man in his 20s was shot to death – not by police. Why was the bar owner there with a weapon in the first place? Many more details came out in the aftermath.
The pictures I’ve used in this post are the work of two gifted photo-journalists who helped me see what had happened back here in Omaha. It’s one thing to see things on the news in other communities, it’s another to feel the unrest in your own part of town and see the images of what happened. Thanks to Chris Machian and Anna Reed I can see not only the physical damage on the streets – I can begin to see the toll this takes on Black lives. The look on the face of a father who will never see his son again. The tears of a friend shocked at how senselessly life can be taken away.
I was in the same moment proud of my community and repulsed by my community. Encouraged to see the diverse, young crowds of demonstrators – on message and insisting on change. And repulsed by the unbridled race-bating and hatred shown in Mr Gardner’s behavior. Horrified that a business establishment in my town had such poor standing yet stayed in operation till now.













